Thank you for your interest in the Certified Sex Coach training program here at Sex Coach U! Prospective students often have the same questions about our programs and our application process, so we’ve answered the most commonly asked questions here.
Frequently Asked Questions:
- What are the prerequisites for joining SCU?
- Do we do the program at our pace?
- How experiential is your program?
- How many hours per week should I expect to devote to my studies?
- What support will I receive during my studies?
- Will we be writing papers and a thesis like in a Master’s program? Are there tests?
- Is it possible to see the material that is made throughout the training?
- Is there an updated version of the textbook, “The Art of Sex Coaching?”
- Is it a one year program and on a Bachelor’s degree level?
- How does Sex Coach U compare to other programs?
- How much does the training cost?
- What is SCU looking for in the selection process?
- What is the application process?
- Do you offer Scholarships?
- What credentials will I earn when I successfully graduate?
- How long will it take to earn my certification?
- Can I apply for AASECT certification when I complete my training?
- Where does SAR take place?
- Do I need to complete the SAR if I have already done one?
- Do I need to take any more training after I graduate?
- When can I start working as a sex coach?
- Is SCU accredited with the International Coaching Federation?
- Is SCU Trauma-Informed?
What are the prerequisites for joining SCU?
We welcome students from a range of professional backgrounds, but some prior training or experience in a related field is required, especially for the Experienced Practitioner Track.
Experienced Practitioner Track Applicants
This path is ideal for experienced professionals who already have a foundation in sexuality, healthcare, education, or a helping profession. You might qualify if you’re a:
- Sexuality educator or workshop facilitator
- Therapist, counselor, psychologist, or social worker
- Nurse, doctor, or healthcare provider
- Public health or human services professional
- Coach, educator, or bodyworker with relevant experience
- Degree-holder in psychology, social work, counseling, or human sexuality
We assess each application individually. If you’re unsure whether your background fits, you’re still encouraged to apply, we’re happy to take a look.
Mastery Path Applicants
No prior sexology or coaching training is required. This path is designed to guide you step-by-step, starting from the foundations. If you’re passionate about helping others and ready to learn, we’ll support you all the way through.
Do we do the programs at our own pace?
Yes, and the pace depends on the path you choose.
For the Mastery Path:
This is a structured, 18-month program that blends self-paced coursework with weekly live sessions, coaching lab sessions, and advisor support. While there’s flexibility built in, you’ll move through the curriculum with your cohort and have regular opportunities to engage in real-time learning. Most students commit 6–8 hours per week.
For the Experienced Practitioner Track Path:
Experienced Practitioner Track is fully self-paced, designed for experienced professionals who prefer flexibility and autonomy. You’ll have 12 months to complete the curriculum and certification requirements. There are no required group calls or live sessions, but support is available à la carte if and when you want it.
For the BOSS Program:
BOSS is a 12-month business training program that combines self-paced content with regular live coaching, coworking sessions, and a private community. You’ll have full access to the curriculum and support structure for the entire year.
Payment Plans:
If you’re on an in-house payment plan, it’s designed to match the length of your program. You can always pay ahead if you want to move faster.
Need more time?
We understand that every learner moves at their own pace. If you need extra time beyond your enrollment period, continuation fees may apply, but we also offer flexibility for those who need it.
We’re committed to supporting neurodivergent students and those for whom English is a second language, and we’re happy to explore accommodations to help you succeed.
How experiential is your program?
How many hours per week should I expect to devote to my studies?
That depends on the path you choose, and your own pace.
Mastery Path:
Most students spend 10–15 hours per week on a mix of coursework, live sessions, coaching lab sessions, and reading. The program is designed to be completed in 18 months, with plenty of flexibility to fit your life.
Experienced Practitioner Track Path:
We recommend setting aside 10–12 hours per week to move steadily through the curriculum and complete all requirements within the 12-month timeline. Since it’s self-paced, you can adjust based on your schedule and learning style.
Study Support:
Each course includes a Study Guide with time estimates to help you plan. Staying consistent with weekly study time will keep you on track and reduce stress, while building the skills you need to thrive as a Certified Sex Coach™.
What support will I receive during my studies?
Will we be writing papers and a thesis like in a masters program? Are there tests?
Nope, no formal tests, papers, or thesis required. At Sex Coach U, we follow adult learning principles that prioritize real-world skills, self-reflection, and applied knowledge.
Here’s how learning is assessed:
For All Students:
- Self-Assessments: At the end of each course, you’ll complete a multiple-choice quiz (with an answer key) and a written self-evaluation to reflect on your learning.
- Ongoing Learning: Attend or rewatch 8 SCU webinars and submit a short reflection for each.
- Final Practicum: You’ll complete three real client sessions, which are recorded and reviewed with feedback from a Student Advisor. This is your chance to demonstrate your coaching skills in action.
Mastery Path:
- Module Workbooks: After each module, you’ll submit a workbook that’s reviewed by your dedicated Student Advisor. Their feedback helps guide your growth and ensure you’re on track.
- No traditional exams or academic papers, just experiential, reflective learning.
Experienced Practitioner Track Path:
- Module Workbooks: You’ll complete a workbook for each module and email it to curriculum@sexcoachu.com for review.
- Additional time: If more support or time is needed to meet certification requirements, you can extend your access for a fee.
Our focus is on helping you become a confident, ethical, and effective sex coach, not testing your memory or writing a thesis. It’s practical, flexible, and designed for real-world impact.
Is it possible to see the material that is made throughout the training?
You won’t get direct access to the course materials before enrolling, but you can review a detailed breakdown of the full curriculum on our website.
The program is built around four core modules that integrate:
- Clinical sexology
- Co-active coaching
- Our signature Integrated Sex Coaching framework
This structure ensures a comprehensive, layered learning experience, designed to help you apply what you learn with confidence and depth.
Is there an updated version of the textbook, The Art of Sex Coaching?
In “The Art of Sex Coaching: Expanding Your Practice” by Dr. Patti Britton, a pioneering text in the field of sex coaching, readers are guided on becoming effective sex coaches. Published in 2005, the book is recognized for its foundational clinical insights, despite some outdated language regarding gender, sexual orientation, and identities. As the field of sexology evolves, it’s crucial to view such texts in context, acknowledging their historical significance while also recognizing shifts in societal norms and terminology.
Sex Coach U encourages students to approach this and other seminal works, like “The Treatment of Sexual Dysfunction” by Hartman & Fithian (1972), with an appreciation for their historical context. These texts offer valuable insights, though some concepts might seem dated.
For example, the Sensate Focus technique, initially designed for heterosexual married couples, is adaptable for partners of all identities and orientations today, emphasizing the universal human experience of physical pleasure and sexual wellness.
The curriculum at Sex Coach U doesn’t solely rely on these classic texts. It integrates contemporary perspectives in sexology, coaching, and business, covering new modalities for healing and current trends. This includes webinars featuring experts across various domains, an essential part of the curriculum alongside the lectures and traditional texts.
While acknowledging the outdated aspects of “The Art of Sex Coaching,” such as binary gendered language, outdated terms like “transsexual,” and a lack of focus on LGBTQIA+ issues or intersectionality, the book’s core intention remains vital: promoting a holistic and humanistic approach to sex, sexual behavior, and identity. It’s MEBES® Model provides a lasting foundation for how to work holistically with any client’s issues, in a system that creates positive outcomes for you and your sex coaching clients.
For SCU students, the challenge is to look beyond the dated terminology, extract foundational practices and research, and contribute to developing new, affirming, and inclusive practices celebrating human sexuality.
Is it a one year program and on a Bachelor’s degree level?
How does Sex Coach U compare to other programs?
At Sex Coach U, our approach to sex coaching education is unmatched, providing a holistic and comprehensive experience that truly sets us apart from other programs. Here’s what makes SCU unique:
Comprehensive Curriculum Rooted in the MEBES® Model: Developed by Dr. Patti Britton, the MEBES® model is the foundation of our programs. It integrates rigorous academic training with practical coaching techniques, ensuring that you gain a deep understanding of sexual wellness from both theoretical and practical perspectives. This model is specifically designed to empower you to turn your passion for sexual wellness into a viable career.
Affiliations with Prestigious Organizations: Our programs are recognized and respected globally, thanks in part to our affiliations with prestigious bodies such as the World Association for Sexual Health, the American Board of Sexology and the Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists. These affiliations enhance the credibility of our certification and affirm our commitment to maintaining the highest standards in sex coaching education.
Supportive Community: SCU is dedicated to fostering a diverse and inclusive community. We provide ongoing support and resources to ensure our students and graduates are well-equipped to make a meaningful impact in the field of sexual wellness. Our community is a place where diversity, inclusion, and innovation are celebrated, offering a network of peers and mentors who provide guidance and encouragement throughout your journey as a sex coach.
Beyond Education: At SCU, you gain more than just a certification; you join a movement advocating for sexual freedom, health, rights, and pleasure worldwide. Our commitment extends beyond education, preparing you to thrive in the dynamic field of sexual wellness and ensuring you have the tools and support needed to create a lasting impact.
By choosing SCU, you’re embarking on a transformative journey with a leader in the field, equipped to guide you through every step of your professional development. Moreover, the personal journey you undertake through the SCU curriculum can profoundly affect your own sexuality and sexual experiences, enriching your personal and professional life alike.
How much does the training cost?
We offer several training paths at Sex Coach U, each with different levels of support, structure, and investment.
Mastery Path:
Our most immersive, supported certification program is $10,497 USD.
Payment plans start at $597/month.
Experienced Practitioner Track Path:
Self-paced and flexible, designed for the experienced practitioner, this certification program is $5,597 USD.
Payment plans are available starting at $497/month for 12 months.
BOSS Program:
Our 12-month business training for sexuality professionals is $3,397 USD.
This program is included at no extra cost for Mastery students.
Additional Costs:
Books & Materials: Most students spend under $300 on required books. On the Mastery Path, we provide a $75 gift card to help cover your core textbooks.
SAR (Sexual Attitude Reassessment): Required for certification. We offer virtual SAR options twice a year, or you can attend a qualified external SAR. Costs vary by provider.
For full details on what’s included in each path, visit our Program Options page.
What is SCU looking for in the selection process?
You must be over 21 years of age to apply to the SCU Certified Sex Coach™ training program. Though, to be honest, it’s rare that we accept someone that young into the program, as it’s vital to have some life experience and maturity to draw on to become a Certified Sex Coach.
That said, we are looking for bright, energetic go-getters who are devoted to making the world a more sex-positive place through helping others achieve their optimal sexual wellness. There are no educational or employment prerequisites, though a history of doing something in the field of sexuality is a plus. This can be as simple as being the person everyone you know turns to for sex advice or as complex as being an MD who specializes in urology or gynecology — or anyone in between!
Ideal candidates for Sex Coach U have a background in therapeutic training, or experience in the pleasure products industry, adult entertainment, bodywork (sexological or other), sex education, life coaching, counseling, nursing, Tantra or other sacred sexuality modalities.
Career changers with prior college education and/or work or business experience are also ideal candidates. SCU is a complete training program, so it is entirely possible to transition from other, completely unrelated careers by achieving the knowledge and skills required to become a competent sex coach.
What you need, above all, is passion, dedication, self-discipline, motivation, and patience. You need a willingness to dive deep into your own psyche and work through and heal from your own sexual wounds. And you need to be open to new ideas and to the diversity of human sexual expression.
You will be challenged by this material, and you may even be triggered. You will need to have a reliable and effective support system in place and know how to self-soothe and regulate your emotional responses.
Finally, you need to be able to self-fund the tuition. If you do not have a consistent, reliable source of income that can cover your tuition payments AND your regular living expenses, then you are not a good candidate for the program at this time.
On the application, we’re specifically looking for people to fully answer our questions. One word and one line responses will not suffice. You need to show us who you are. Be authentic and demonstrate your enthusiasm. Answer our written questions thoroughly and from the heart in order to be seriously considered for enrollment.
What is the application process?
Students are accepted into Sex Coach U on a case-by-case basis, and not everyone who applies is accepted. To enroll in the program, you must complete a two-part application process:
- Written Application: Begin by submitting a detailed written application. This allows us to understand your background, your motivations for becoming a sex coach, and how you envision your future in the field.
- Live Application Interview: If your written application meets our criteria, you will be invited to participate in a live Application Interview, conducted via Zoom. This step further assesses your suitability for the program and gives you a chance to ask any questions you may have.
Applications are accepted during short open enrollment periods, typically occurring twice per year—during Spring and Fall. Due to the limited number of seats in each enrollment cycle and the high demand, we encourage prospective students to act quickly when these periods open.
Do you offer Scholarships?
Partial scholarships are awarded on the Mastery Path on a very limited basis. These need-based scholarships bring the tuition down 50%, therefore recipients must be able to cover the other 50% of the total tuition. Usually only one scholarship is awarded during each enrollment period, for an applicant in any of the following categories:
- Someone who identifies as Black, Indigenous, or a Person of Color residing in the United States
- Someone who identifies as Black, Indigenous, or a Person of Color residing outside of the United States
- Someone with a documented disability or other special circumstance
- Someone residing in Poland (for our special Dunlap Memorial Poland Award)
These scholarships are only available to exceptional candidates who:
- Can justify an extreme financial need,
- Can provide evidence of their ability to pay 50% of the regular tuition, in monthly installments,
- Can demonstrate their passion for this work
Our enrollment team uses their discretion during each enrollment period to identify potential scholarship candidates. Those candidates will be given the opportunity to submit an additional questionnaire verifying their eligibility. The enrollment team will review all candidates and award scholarships toward the end of each enrollment period.
What credentials will I earn when I successfully graduate?
Graduating from this training gives you the title of Certified Sex Coach™, and upon graduation, you may add the initials “CSC” behind your name.
When you graduate, you qualify for instant eligibility to join the American Board of Sexology (ABS), and the Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists (ASIS).
SCU graduates with a prior Bachelor’s degree in a healthcare-related field are eligible to apply for the PhD in Clinical Sexology program at IICS (International Institute for Clinical Sexology), an accredited U.S. school based in Florida. Our program is the equivalent of a Master’s degree!
As Sex Coach U operates globally with students and graduates in over 80 countries. We take great pride in our status as an organizational member of the World Association of Sexual Health (WAS). When representing your affiliation with WAS on your personal website, LinkedIn profile, or other professional materials, you may use the following wording: “Alumni of Sex Coach U, an Organizational Member of the World Association for Sexual Health (WAS).” Additionally, through your connection with Sex Coach U, an Organizational Member of WAS, you are eligible to join WAS as an individual member at a reduced annual rate of $50.
How long will it take to earn my certification?
It depends on the path you qualify for, and how quickly you move through the program.
Experienced Practitioner Track Path:
You’ll have up to 12 months to complete the curriculum and certification requirements. Since it’s self-paced, you can finish faster if you prefer.
Mastery Path:
This immersive path is designed to be completed in 18 months, with live sessions, coaching lab sessions, and a more structured learning flow.
Certification Requirements (All Paths):
- Completion of all required coursework and module workbooks
- A final case study and supervised practicum
- Attendance (or replay) of 8 SCU webinars with short reflections
- Participation in an SCU-approved SAR (Sexual Attitude Reassessment) training
- All tuition must be paid in full before graduation
Both paths are designed to give you the time and flexibility to absorb the material fully, so you can graduate confident, qualified, and ready to coach.
Can I apply for AASECT Certification when I complete my training?
Many prospective students ask if our program meets the requirements for certification through the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT).
As of Jan 1, 2021, AASECT CEs are no longer provided through Sex Coach U. AASECT certification is restricted to United States citizens. However, Sex Coach U is a global organization with students and graduates in over 80 countries and counting.
Therefore, we are proud to be recognized as an organizational member of the World Association of Sexual Health (WAS). As an enrolled student or graduate, you become a member of this incredible international organization under our membership umbrella.
You may still apply for AASECT certification, but you’ll need to consult them about their requirements and whether or not your studies at Sex Coach U will qualify. We do not guarantee AASECT certification will be granted as a result of completion of the Certified Sex Coach™ training program.
AASECT certification is awarded on a case-by-case basis, according to a candidate’s background and whether they meet the highly-rigorous AASECT criteria. Learn more here.
Where does SAR take place?
SAR takes place at different times during the year, in different locations around the USA and internationally. Each training is offered by an SCU-approved SAR provider or another recommended trainer. Past locations have included San Francisco, Phoenix, Warsaw, Poland, Berlin, Germany, Amsterdam, Netherlands, and Prague, Czech Republic.
In-person SARs were suspended for much of the Covid-19 pandemic. As a result, the Sex Coach U team developed an effective virtual SAR and is now offering that to SCU students twice a year. The fee for the SCU Virtual SAR is not included in your tuition.
Do I need to complete the SAR if I have already done one?
No, your previous SAR training will count if completed within the past three years of your application. You will need to send your SAR completion certificate and a write-up on your SAR experience for submission to your student advisor. While you do not need to complete another to earn your certification, you may choose to take another to refresh your training.
Do I need to take any more training after I graduate?
The Certified Sex Coach™ program is a complete training program, providing you with all the skills and tools you’ll need to work and build a business as a competent sex coach. You do not need any further training after graduation in order practice as a Certified Sex Coach™.
That said, many of our students choose to take further training. Many have gone on to earn credentials in complementary fields like sociology, psychology, marriage and family therapy, counselling, GSRD therapy, or public health. Others choose to train in sexological bodywork, sacred sexuality, trauma therapy, or other holistic fields.
We highly recommend students continue to invest in their professional development after graduation to keep up with the latest developments in sexology and sexual health.
All students choose different paths, and it depends on the career goals and preferences of each student.
When can I start working as a sex coach?
SCU has a policy on working as a Sex Coach In Training, which you can view here.
In summary, SCU was created in order to provide the gold standard in sex coach training. We feel students are not ready to take clients through the full sex coaching process until they have completed their training and have passed their live practicum demonstration. This policy is to protect both students and clients from potential harm.
However, we acknowledge that many students who come to SCU already have prior training and experience in healing and therapeutic modalities and are already working with clients.
We encourage students to start building their business, their online presence, and their professional network as soon as possible. There are many ways to do this without taking clients through the sex coaching process, which you can read more about here.
Student advisors will assess whether their students are ready to work as a sex coach before graduation and will make the final decision.
Is SCU accredited with the International Coaching Federation?
No – sex coaching is a derivative of the field of sexology, not coaching. With Sex Coach U, you can be cross-certified with American Board of Sexology and the Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists in the UK.
Also, Sex Coach U is the only sex coach training organization that has been approved for organizational membership in the World Association for Sexual Health (WAS), a highly respected global organization dedicated to sexual health and wellness for all. All Sex Coach U students and graduates also enjoy membership benefits under our membership status.
Is SCU Trauma-Informed?
We’re deeply committed to integrating trauma-informed principles into our training programs. Here’s how we’re actively working towards this goal:
Expert Collaboration: We regularly collaborate with leading experts in the field of trauma to ensure that our curriculum is comprehensive and sensitive to the needs of individuals who have experienced trauma. Their invaluable insights help us continuously refine and enhance our offerings.
Webinars on Trauma-Informed Care: We host informative webinars specifically focused on trauma-informed care. These sessions provide practical strategies and knowledge to better support individuals who have been impacted by trauma. We believe that ongoing education is crucial in fostering an environment of understanding and compassion.
Understanding Our Role: While our program primarily focuses on coaching and skill-building, we recognize the importance of acknowledging the complexities of trauma and the need for specialized therapeutic interventions. We emphasize the distinction between coaching and therapy and encourage our students to refer clients to appropriate professionals when necessary.
Creating Supportive Environments: Our overarching goal is to create inclusive and supportive environments where individuals feel safe and empowered to explore their sexuality. We continuously strive to improve our practices and welcome feedback from our community to ensure that we’re meeting the needs of all individuals, particularly those who have experienced trauma.