Dear SCU Family,
As I step into this new year, I’m filled with immense gratitude and reflection. After 15 incredible years leading Sex Coach U, it’s time for me to pass the torch to the brilliant and passionate Nikol Dekazou, who will guide SCU into its next chapter.
This isn’t goodbye—it’s a heartfelt thank you.
When I founded SCU, my vision was to create a program that not only trained exceptional sex coaches but also created a global community built on compassion, competence, and connection. Together, we’ve done just that. SCU has grown into a beacon for sexual wellness, a place where dreams turn into meaningful careers, and where lives are transformed.
This journey has been one of the greatest joys of my life, but none of it would have been possible without you. The students, graduates, and colleagues who have walked this path with me are the heart of SCU. Your courage, passion, and dedication to this work inspire me every day.
As I look back on the last 15 years, I’m overwhelmed by what we’ve accomplished together. And as I lean forward into this next chapter, I’m excited to see where SCU will go under Nikol’s leadership. I know she will honor SCU’s legacy while bringing fresh ideas and energy to the program.
I invite you to leave a comment below to share your thoughts, farewells, or memories from our journey together. Your words mean the world to me, and I’d love to hear from you.
SCU has always been a labor of love for me, and while my role is shifting, my commitment to its mission remains steadfast. I’ll continue to support SCU as part of the Advisory Board, and I’ll always cherish the incredible moments we’ve shared.
Thank you for being part of this story. Here’s to everything we’ve built—and all that’s yet to come.
With love and deep gratitude,
Dr. Patti
Dr. Patti, you have been a wonderful mentor, blending business brilliance with boundless love and your signature spunkiness. You’ve been a guiding light, a source of inspiration, and cherished friend.
Thank you, Dr. Patti, for your vision, wisdom, and the laughter we’ve shared. SCU wouldn’t be what it is today without you.
With love and gratitude,
Lisa Welsh
SCU Marketing Manager
Dr. Patti,
Thank you for everything you have done for the SCU community and beyond. You are a brilliant light.
Wishing you all the best!
Jordan Vecchio
SCU BOSS Coordinator
Dr. Patti, when I interviewed with you in fall of 2020, I had no idea the impact you’d have on my life! I am so happy to have been able to work with you and honored to call you my friend. The last five years with SCU have been amazing. I wish you well on your future endeavors.
DOXO,
Amanda Vee
SCU Coaching Skills Coordinator
Dear Dr. Patti,
Thank you for everything you’ve done—not only for the program we work on but also for each of us who has had the privilege of working with you.
You didn’t just create a program; you have truly built a legacy. The sexual liberation, self-acceptance, & joy that this work brings to the world is so important, as you know. Creating SCU and passing the torch will continue to bring more of that to SCU students and everyone our sex coaches serve. It’s a beautiful ripple effect, and I hope you continue to feel it.
I’m also excited for you as you begin this well-deserved new chapter. You’ve earned every moment of rest, joy, and adventure that retirement brings.
Wishing you all the best in this new phase of life.
In gratitude,
Julia Satterlee
Student Advisor
Dr. Patti,
Experiencing your vibrant leadership has been an incredible honor. I’m so grateful for the opportunity to learn from and be mentored by such a trailblazer as yourself. Your dedication and vision have been truly inspiring.
I will always treasure the memories I have traveling with you to meet SCU students and graduates around the world!
I’m excited for the bright future of SCU and for all the amazing things ahead for YOU! Wishing continued success to both!
Dr. Norelyn Parker
SCU General Manager
Dr Patti,
I attribute SCU’s training to my success as a sex coach. This work is my purpose, and I would not have the knowledge and skill to be here without the training. Additionally, I will always cherish working with you and Robert in the beginning of SCU’s journey. What a gift!
Much love to you!
Dr Janet
Dr. Patti,
I am forever grateful to you, to Dr. Robert, and to the rest of the SCU community, for the life-changing opportunities you’ve provided me. Without your seminal influence and encouragement, I would not be a certified sex coach— much less a PhD sexologist! (It was you and Dr. Robert who saw the potential in me, and encouoraged me to embark on my doctoral program at IASHS.)
It feels as if we’re about to enter a period of potential shadow over the role of healthy sexuality in our society. I stand shoulder to shoulder with you and the SCU community, in fighting for the human right to pleasure, and for the recognition of the crucial role of sensuality and sexuality in deep human connection. I’m heartened to hear that you will retain a connection to SCU, through your Advisory Board position. We need your continued guidance and vast depth of experience, to remain passionate, commmited and effective.
I hope that your next chapter will bring you more of the satisfaction and reward that you so richly deserve. I’m sure whatever path you’ve chosen for yourself will bring challenges, but also opportunities for you to continue to let your light shine brightly. Sincere thanks for all you do!
Warmly,
Dr. Claude